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never know

Birthday Words for Mom

Mom,
The other day, I walked into Big Girl’s classroom to pick her up and there you were. You were seated in one of those tiny Kindergarten chairs, clutching your big black purse, and my girl was sitting there next…

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Posted in: DAILY GRIND, IVY LEAGUE INSECURITIES., ON LIFE, ON LOVE, Parenthood, QUOTES., The Fam

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you know nothing

The Only True Wisdom Is…

You take notes. Real ones. Imaginary ones. You pay attention. Notice things. Connect dots. Your aim, if unconscious, is to better understand yourself, the world. Your goal, if hazy, is to prepare yourself, to stockpile information, to grow.
But one…

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Posted in: DAILY GRIND, IVY LEAGUE INSECURITIES., LIFE, ON LIFE, Online & Onscreen, QUOTES.

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busyfeet

On Happiness & Being Busy

Since Monday’s Happier Hour with Gretchen Rubin, I’ve been thinking a lot about happiness, what it means, what it looks like, feels like. And I’ve realized something. Being busy, busy doing things I love – writing, mothering, spending time with…

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Posted in: DAILY GRIND, Happy Headache, IVY LEAGUE INSECURITIES., LIFE, ON LIFE, Parenthood, QUOTES.

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tell a truth

Tell a Truth

I learned something yesterday. Something I already knew, but seem to forget. I learned that it can be really rewarding to tell a truth. I am not talking about the truth, that elusive, Platonic thing we are all implored to…

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Posted in: A YEAR WITHOUT WINE., DAILY GRIND, DRINKING DAYS, DRY DAYS, Health & Happiness, IVY LEAGUE INSECURITIES., ON LIFE, ON LOVE, Pregnancy, QUOTES.

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anidealist

Today Is My Birthday

Today is my birthday. At 3:38 this morning, I turned 34. Not young. Not old.
Today is my birthday. And I will spend it doing the things I love: drinking coffee, writing words, wrangling girls, talking and laughing with people…

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Posted in: DAILY GRIND, IVY LEAGUE INSECURITIES., LIFE, ON LIFE, QUOTES.

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fridayloves92112

ADR Friday Loves 9.21.12

Okay. So it’s officially official: I love doing these Friday Loves. I’m not sure why. It’s something about the show and tell, the sharing and caring, the hunting and gathering, the reveling in things silly and serious, goodies physical and…

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Posted in: BOOKS., DAILY GRIND, Friday Loves, IVY LEAGUE INSECURITIES., ON LIFE, ON LOVE, ON WRITING, Parenthood, QUOTES., READING LIFE, WRITING LIFE, Yummy

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allbeauty

The Birth of Beauty

Where does beauty come from? When do we first become acquainted with this concept? When does it come to dominate our decisions and our visions, or does it? Do some of us escape concerns about being beautiful and having beautiful…

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Posted in: DAILY GRIND, IVY LEAGUE INSECURITIES., LIFE, LOVE, ON LIFE, ON LOVE, Parenthood, QUOTES., Sisterhood, The Fam

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wellbegun

Why Not Begin?

Believe me. I know. It’s hard to begin things. It’s hard because we don’t know where to start.
But the truth is that beginning well, as Aristotle says, is often half the work. Often if we just decide to start,…

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Posted in: DAILY GRIND, IVY LEAGUE INSECURITIES., LIFE, ON LIFE, ON WRITING, QUOTES.

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nohumanthing

Taxi Cab Tears

Do you take things too seriously? Sometimes I do. Sometimes, I get all wrapped up in issues, in thoughts, in that ever-expanding taxonomy of what-if’s and I enter a pretty serious place. But then. Then I am brought back –…

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Posted in: DAILY GRIND, GLIMPSES., IVY LEAGUE INSECURITIES., LIFE, LOVE, OF LOVE, ON LIFE, Parenthood, QUOTES., The Fam

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Detailed view from Brooklyn Bridge, sepia toned

Making My Way.

Today was supposed to be the day.
Today was supposed to be the day I met my lovely agent (Brettne Bloom of Kneerim & Williams) for breakfast in the neighborhood. The day I handed over a crisp stack of pages,…

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Posted in: BOOKS., DAILY GRIND, IVY LEAGUE INSECURITIES., LIFE, LOVE, ON LIFE, Parenthood, QUOTES., WORK IN PROGRESS, WRITING

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